BEATS OF LOVE
173. Free Energy by Bananagun
IN THE late 1950s, symptoms of bulimia; the bingeing, the purging, were folded into broader psychiatric frameworks, misread, misnamed.
Leading to misdiagnosis or classification under broader neurotic categories, so my mother got sectioned. I never knew this in her lifetime, but I was told candidly by my sister. When I mentioned it to her surviving partner, he said, 'Your mother was in the bottom block' and moved on. The phrase has stayed with me since.
I was sad as I recalled how upset we both were leaving Horwich after my father quit his job. He took us to Middleton, unbeknownst to me, my mother's birthplace, before finally taking us back to her hometown. The draw was being with her own mother, despite some folk knowing her history. They held a silence. I think of that now and can barely imagine it. I recall my ambivalence after giving up on the Mancunian dream to return home myself and the one thing drawing me back: my mother, who understood my sadness more than I knew.
I miss that tangible love like when she knotted herself around me prior to my major surgery, so much it hurts still.
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